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Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of
the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio ."To celebrate growing older, I once wrotethe 45 lessons life taught me. It is the mostrequested column I’ve ever written.My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, sohere is the column once more:1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.3. Life is too short – enjoy it.4. Your job won’t take care of you when you aresick. Your friends and family will. 5.Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.9. Save for things that matter.10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have noidea what their journey is all about.14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’tbe in it.15. Everything can change in the blink of an eyeBut don’t worry; God never blinks.16.. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful. Clutterweighs you down in many ways.18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.19. It’s never too late to be happy. But it’s all up toyou and no one else.20. When it comes to going after what you love in life,don’t take no for an answer.21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear thefancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.24. The most important sex organ is the brain.25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words'In five years, will this matter?'27. Always choose life.28. Forgive but don’t forget. 29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.33. Believe in miracles.34. God loves you because of who God is, not becauseof anything you did or didn’t do.35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.37. Your children get only one childhood.38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saweveryone else’s, we’d grab ours back.41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you alreadyhave not what you need.42. The best is yet to come…43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.44. Yield.45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.”Its estimated 93% won’t forward this. If you are one ofthe 7% who will, forward this with the title ‘7%’.I’m in the 7% . Friends are the family that we choose.